Short message from a former student of mine regarding “Some things you should know before going to Vietnam.” She immigrated to the U.S. from Vietnam about three years ago:
“Dear Dr. Mooney!
How are you? How is your summer going? Are you looking forward the trip to China and Vietnam? I would like to tell you a little about Vietnamese’s culture to help you avoid surprising when you have similar situations.
Do you know how to use chop sticks? Vietnamese use chop sticks to eat all foods.
Before entering a house, you should take off your shoes.
In the past Vietnamese sleep and eat on the floor. Now, we eat on the table and sleep on the bed, but that became our culture.
Vietnamese are very close when we are talking and they touch sometimes. Don’t feel uncomfortable if somebody touches you when he or she is talking to you. That’s just the way showing friendliness.
If you invite someone hang out to eat or drink, you should pay the check. Don’t buy the food that is sold on the street because that is dirty and you might get into trouble when you eat it. Vietnamese food is very diversity and delicious. You should try it, but ask somebody for clean and good places to go.
The things that you should bring to Vietnam include medicines like allergy, Tylenol, Advil, stomach ache [medicine], sunscreen, cap, and sunglasses.
The weather in Vietnam is hot and humid, so you should have summer clothes. It is cool down in fall and winter, but it is still hotter than California.
There is smoke and pollution in the city, especially, Hanoi and Ho Chi Minh; however it is very nice in the country side. All the places that you mentioned when we were talking last time are very beautiful. I want to add 2 more places that you should visit: Nha Trang, which is the most beautiful beach in Vietnam, and Dalat, where there are many waterfalls and the weather is very cool. If you want to see Ho Chi Minh’s mummy, you can go to Ba Dinh Square in Hanoi.
I hope these things above can be helpful when you are in Vietnam. Don’t work too hard. Take your time to enjoy the trip.”